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親愛的S：
又遇到"做與不做"的選擇題了嗎？
明明選擇題的答案很簡單，"做"、"不做"
但是，每個選項都有一萬個理由在前面阻撓你，對吧？

親愛的S，倒杯熱茶，點以上我幫你找的音樂，讓我開始說吧
想先跟你說，很多合理邏輯的解決方法，在人生上面並不適用，連續劇主角，選擇了A工作、放棄了B選擇，然後就出現五年後的快樂結局，然後秀出"劇終"兩字，但，想跟你說，現實人生中
沒人保證，選擇後，你就會得到答案


人生不是僅僅簡單的齒輪互動，當你一動，整個人生會因此像時鐘一樣，精準的照計畫的進到下一秒、下一分，那像是一種化學效應，你的決定到某人身上會衍生出千萬種結果，更何況我們身邊有這麼多的相關人，而那些結果往往是電影編劇寫不到的那段、更不是你自己憑著活著這些年猜得出來的，很多的、所謂的邏輯判斷，人人都推斷得出來、人人都做不到，別再用這些折磨你自己了吧


你可能說，那這是不是在逃避？
很多問題與答案，需要在最成熟的時候，決定才會產生意義
不到那成熟的時候，很多的時候只是你庸人自擾，花了很多勇氣心力做了選擇，就像一顆沙子投入大海，連一朵漣漪都掀不起，因為時間不對。什麼時候才是對的時間？當你發現自己不猶豫的時候，那就是了！


你可能會問，那現在我要怎麼辦？
親愛的，想著你的原則，丟掉那些煩惱雜念，穩下來慢慢走，日出而作、日落而息，人生沒這麼複雜，相信我。


很高興，現在你面對了，而不是一直避著眼不去看，勇敢，不需要跑馬拉松的勇氣衝勁，其實只要咬牙閉眼跨出那一步，你會發現佛祖帶著上帝一起來幫你，那化學作用會來了，很多事情會迎刃而解，但是，先跟你說，不見得都是快樂的（如果人生是這麼容易快樂，就不會有這麼多人在苦勸人家要快樂）。


親愛的S，記得，下次別再以為自己連這種做與不做這麼簡單都做不到而困擾，因為你會發現自己失眠晃神居然只是苦惱著問題，卻沒什麼答案。請為要不要挑戰100公里腳踏車行而思考、下一個電影要看哪一片而困擾，人生，要浪費在美好事物上，不是嗎？


M敬上
2009.1.12


Dear S：
Before you start to read the letter, please get a cup of hot tea and click the youtube video which I prepare for you.
Are you bothering about the to be or not to be question again?
Usually the answer is very simple, a or b. But usually there would be millions of reasons list in front of the answer to confuse you, right?


Dear S, before everything, I want to tell you that many solution which meet the logic concept doesn't meet the reality. In a movie, when the girl choose A and give up B, next the screen would show that 5 years later, a happy scene, and the end. But I want to tell you, in reality

Nobody can promise  you that you would get answer after making choice.


Life is not just a gear wheel only that you move and everthing would go logically to next second, next minute as a clock. It is a chemical reaction. Your decision would result in millions of results through other people, not even to mention that we are surrounding by hundreds of people and everything is so unperdictable. Most of the time, the result is what a movie screen player writer could not do figure out, not what you can quess by yourself. It is easy for everyone to do logical judgement but not everybody can really make it. So, don't torture yourself with it anymore...


You may say "So, i don't have to face it now?"
Questions and answers would really matter only when the timing is matured. Otherwise, the choice your make would just like throwing a piece of sand into the sea, none ripple would be made. So "when is the best timing?" you may ask. It would be the time when you find there is no other choice to make. 


You may ask, "So, what can I do now?"
Oh, dear. Keep what you belive, throw those worries away, and keep going steadily
Work when the sun comes out, and rest when the sun comes down. Life is not so complicated, trust me. 


I am very heppy for you that you tried to face it instead of pretending nothing happen at all. Sometimes, it just need the courage of stepping out when facing the question you met. When you step out, the chemical reaction would happen, and things would be solved. But, I have to tell you, not all the consequence follows a happy ending. If things always so positively, it won't need so many people to remind you to be happy.


Dear S, please keep in mind, do not bother for why you can't make a choice between two simple choices. The easier the question is, the harder decision to make, and your would find you spent hours of time just circling on the question, instead of finding the question.
So, please worry for what movie to watch? should I take 100 or 150 km for next biking challenge. After all, life should waste on those beautyful things, isn't it?

Regards,
M
2009.1.12